Illustration showing the Iowa Capitol behind a protest crowd, a torn Civil Rights Act document stamped “Removed,” a judge’s gavel resting on rainbow fragments, and a distressed transgender individual sitting in the foreground.

Who Decides Who Deserves Rights?

There is a sentence carved into the bones of Iowa.
You see it on the seal.
You hear it in classrooms.
You find it in the stories we tell about ourselves when we want to sound brave.

“Our liberties we prize, and our rights we will maintain.”

Say it slowly.
Let it sit in your mouth like truth.

Because today I am asking a question that should make every one of us uncomfortable.

Who exactly is we?

Who decides who belongs inside that promise…
and who gets shoved outside of it?

Because the Iowa legislature just made that decision.

They took a pen, sat comfortably in their chairs beneath the gold dome, and erased a group of human beings from the protections of the Iowa Civil Rights Act.

Erased.

Not debated.
Not adjusted.
Not clarified.

Erased.

Gender identity.

Gone.

Just like that.

And if that were not cruel enough, they went a step further.
They passed another law saying cities cannot protect people either.

Think about that.

Davenport cannot.
Iowa City cannot.
Coralville cannot.

Communities that said, “We will protect our neighbors,” were told by the state:

No.

Sit down.

You do not get to care that much.

You do not get to be that decent.

Governor Reynolds will tell you this is policy.

The legislature will tell you this is governance.

But let me tell you what it feels like to the people whose lives just got turned into a political chess piece.

It feels like betrayal.

It feels like watching the state you grew up believing in suddenly point a finger at your friends and say:

“You do not count.”

And that is why tonight I am saying names.

I am pointing fingers.

Governor Kim Reynolds.

Members of the Iowa House.

Members of the Iowa Senate.

You did this.

You signed it.

You voted for it.

You own it.

Because civil rights are not abstract concepts.

They are not campaign slogans.

They are not ammunition for culture wars.

They are about people.

People like my dear friend Desiree.

Desireee is not a talking point.

Desiree is not a legislative category.

Desiree is a human being who laughs too loud sometimes, who cares too deeply, who shows up when friends need help, who carries the same messy, complicated, beautiful humanity the rest of us carry.

And now the state she grew up in has decided that her protection from discrimination is negotiable.

That the dignity of her existence can be debated on the floor of the House like a tax policy.

Let me tell you something about living under stigma.

I know it intimately.

I know what it feels like when a room decides what you are.

I know what it feels like when the world stamps labels onto your skin like price tags.

I know what it feels like when teachers rip your hand away from a friend because two boys should not hold hands.

I know what it feels like to come out at thirteen and watch the world suddenly tilt.

I know what it feels like to carry addiction, incarceration, mental illness, trauma.

I know what it feels like to walk into a room and see pity in someone’s eyes.

Or worse.

Disgust.

And then life added another label.

Disabled.

Right arm amputee.

Suddenly, strangers decided who I was again.

They decided what I could do.

What am I worth.

Whether I deserved dignity.

So do not stand there and tell me this legislation is harmless.

Do not stand there and pretend you do not know what you are doing.

Because when you remove civil rights protections from people, you send a message louder than any speech.

You say:

These people matter less.

You say:

Their dignity is optional.

You say:

Their safety is negotiable.

And I am furious.

Not politely disappointed.

Not quietly concerned.

Furious.

Because Iowa used to know better.

This is the state that legalized interracial marriage in 1851.

The state that rejected segregated schools before the federal government even found the courage to try.

The state that legalized same-sex marriage before most of the country had the backbone to stand up for equality.

Now it is the first state in modern American history to take one away.

Iowa used to expand rights.

Think about that legacy.

Think about how history will write that sentence.

“Iowa — the first state to revoke a civil rights protection.”

That stain belongs to every legislator who voted yes.

Every leader who defended it.

Every official who decided political points were worth more than human dignity.

And I want those lawmakers to hear something clearly tonight.

You did not just pass a bill.

You told my friend Desiree that the law will not stand beside her the way it once did.

You told transgender Iowans that the state sees them as expendable.

You told families across this state that their children’s humanity can be negotiated away in a committee meeting.

And the worst part?

You did it while hiding behind a motto that says:

“Our liberties we prize, and our rights we will maintain.”

If that sentence still means anything, then it must mean everyone.

Not just the comfortable.

Not just the politically convenient.

Everyone.

So tonight I am done whispering.

I am done pretending this is just another policy debate.

Governor Reynolds.

Iowa Legislature.

You do not get to erase people and still claim the mantle of liberty.

You do not get to strip protections from my friends and still wrap yourselves in the language of freedom.

History is watching.

And one day, someone will stand on a stage like this and tell the story of the moment Iowa lost its moral compass.

The moment lawmakers decided that rights could be taken away.

And they will ask the same question I am asking tonight.

Who decided who deserved rights?

And why were so many leaders willing to say:

“Not them.”

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